One summer, our family had the unique experience of welcoming a film crew into our home to document our entire day for the purpose of creating a promotional video for an organization called Hopekids.  It was fun but nerve-wracking to say the least as we prepared.  I spent hours making my home look pristine, decorating and rearranging the kids’ bedrooms, kitchen, living room and bathroom to reflect what the producers wanted to portray: The perfect family.  At least that’s what I assumed.